Eric, Keri, Tanner, Austin, Carson & McKenna

Sunday, July 4, 2010

Life Resumes

DANCE FESTIVAL 2010:  A Firm Foundation

Dance Festival is now a thing of the past and I can resume life (if I can remember what I used to do).  My kids are excited to have a mom again (the last nine months have been tough) and finally start summer (which they were forbidden to do until I had this big event behind me).  My husband is happy to turn back over the household chores, and my stake is glad they don't have to feed us anymore.  I guess I should get you all caught up, if you don't know what I am talking about. 

Last year on my birthday I got a phone call from Jeff Jackson asking if I would be the stake director and our stake's regional representative for the regional dance festival to take place the end of June 2010.  I was very excited to accept this position.  I knew the regional directors well and knew it would be a great event.  I was also very excited to be working with youth again, and dusting off my dancing shoes.  I knew it would be quite an undertaking, but found out quickly that was severely understated.  At the end of this event this dance festival spanned seven stakes and had about 2000 youth participating.  What a journey I have been on.  One I will always remember and cherish - what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger!

Richie and Erin Gillespie (Regional Directors) helping me teach the Priests and Laurels the Waltz.

The first 6 or 7 months were quite lonely.  The stake was going through major leadership changes which left me alone to plan, organize and implement a way to teach and costume over 400 youth for 7 dances and 2 choral arrangements.  Serving on the regional committee I was also responsible for keeping a history of the event, and overseeing the human and public relations interactions, including press and media releases.  In addition, I sat in counsel with the regional directors and the other six stake representatives to plan and present the dance festival program to the community while providing the youth with a youth conference experience.

Austin's appearance (with other youth leaders) on AM Northwest to promote the dance festival.
Here are just a few of the hurdles I had to overcome:
  • How do you find enough practice space for 400 youth?
  • How do you partner teenage boys and girls without having feelings hurt? 
  • What do you do when you have more boys that girls?
  • How do you get busy youth to attend dance practices on top of their already busy schedules?
  • How do you get leaders to engage when they aren't responsible for the outcome?
  • Where do you find 2000 pens for youth to journal their experience, and how do you pass them out?
  • How do you move 2500 people through a venue on a time schedule?
  • Can you imagine the lines at the girl's bathrooms - how many "honey buckets" do we need to get?
  • How do you cycle four groups of about 500 through practice times on the field and keep them busy when they aren't practicing?
  • The army told us they couldn't feed that many (we asked their emergency response teams to use us as a training exercise), could the Relief Society do it?
  • After youth all over the region have been practicing for 6 months alone how do you bring them all together on the field in one day and put a show together to perform that night as a unified group?


Do Re Mi - Austin's favorite dance (next to MORE and the Rhumba)!

You would not believe the end result, unless you saw it.  The show was spectacular.  It brought people to tears and to their feet.  The youth didn't want the weekend to end.  The spirit surrounding the stadium was palpable.

Patriotic Opening:  A Tribute to the Armed Services


I Love To See The Temple

Even more spectacular than the show, was what we were able to accomplish working with these youth over the past six months.  They put down their cell phones and learned to interact face to face.  Young men and young women learned respect for one another.  They learned about commitment and hard work.  They saw miracles happen.  They learned tolerance for others.  Many of them learned they enjoy dancing.  Many learned something new about themselves.  Everyone made new friends and saw that they weren't alone in following the teachings of Jesus Christ.


Here is Tanners synopsis of his dance festival experience: "It was amazing. The practices became very tedious and time consuming. It was hard to learn all the dances through. But in the end it was great. It gave me the opportunity to see just how many youth are living the same standards I am. I was also able to meet some new people and get outside my comfort zone. I would do it again in a heartbeat. I would have a better attitude at the beginning because I would know how great the end product would be and that it would be worth all the work."


Tanner was able to participate in the Do Re Mi and MORE number mentioned above, the disco and the waltz.  He said if he had the opportunity to do it again, he would definitely participate in the specialty numbers too.  I think he saw what a good time his little brother had doing those.  Tanner is quite the dancer!  His partners were lucky young women. 


Tanner and Alysa Dustin learning the disco.


Austin and Morgan Jackson performing the Rhumba

Austin had this to say:  The practices started being demoralizing because it didn't seem like things were coming together, but when we all got together that weekend and saw it all work in the formations it was amazing.  It was so neat to see all those youth uphold the same standards I do.  When I went on the field to perform it felt good to see it all come together as it was supposed to.  When we concluded the show with the hymn "How Firm a Foundation,"  I could see the audience felt the spirit of the program we had presented.  I was able to feel that spirit all weekend long with the youth conference events and every time we performed.



I think Austin enjoyed letting his inner performer out.  He would get really embarrassed when I told him what great "dancer arms" he had, and it was SO fun to see him really get moving on the MORE dance.  I think he found a hidden talent, or at least something he really enjoys.  I am pleased he chose to dance the Rhumba with Morgan Jackson, which even meant more practices, and on Saturday mornings none the less.  You know the kids love it when they get together on their own and hold even more practices!  Which Austin and Morgan did with other couples from the dance regularly. Austin also performed in the Jive/Swing number pictured above.  All in all I think it is safe to say he really enjoyed himself.
 
 
Helaman's Army:  Then and Now
We are 2000 Strong: Youth Conference
   
This was a successful event.  I am grateful I was part of it.  It is amazing what has been accomplished.  I definitely did not do it alone.  To relieve stress but still feel I was making progress on the festival, there were nights my family moved all the furniture out of the front room and danced together.  There were other nights McKenna and I were sewing costumes.  Most nights Eric was left to get dinner on the table so I could be at my meetings or dance practices.  McKenna enjoyed helping me teach the MORE dance and accompanying me to the many of the dance practices I got to attend.  One of my favorite memories of this experience will be of me dancing with my teenage sons as they learned their age specific dances.  Eric was my liaison with the Evergreen School district and the scout troops that met at one of their schools to learn their dance.  Carson made sure I had my supply of hugs.  My father-in-law helped round up hundreds of pens.  My mother-in-law, sister-in-law and her husband helped with the registration carnival that kicked off the event and the pep assembly between dance practices the following day.  My parents took care of my two youngest for three days while I worked the event.  It was a family affair!  Besides my family I had a lot of support from sweet friends, old and new.  Hours of service to help me with posters, sorting t-shirts, even grocery shopping and fixing meals for my family.  I wish you all could have seen the show, but even then you would have only scratched the surface of the entire experience.


2000 youth singing How Firm a Foundation

Friday, April 30, 2010

Happy Birthday, Tanner and McKenna!

We celebrated two very special birthdays this month:



Tanner is now 16. What a nice young man he has turned out to be. Tanner is pretty close to perfect: a good student, very helpful, star athlete, talented musician, worthy priesthood holder and an important part of our family. I appreciate that Tanner still counts me as a friend and will hang out with me when I show up at his school events. I have really enjoyed teaching him how to drive and teasing him about who his first date is going to be once he gets his license. One memory I will especially treasure this year is dancing the waltz with him at dance festival practices. Watch out girls - he is a pretty good dancer! 



Tanner wasn't even home for his birthday - he was on choir tour, but he got a nice camera to take along to document his trip and was with good friends who made it a point to make his birthday special. Tanner will never forget his men's vocal ensemble (state champions, by the way) singing a rousing rendition of "Happy Birthday!" on the school bus along with the other award winning choirs of Union High School. When he got home that night we had his favorite dinner, chicken triangles, par broiled potatoes, carrots and Caesar salad ready for him followed by my homemade mud pie. He stayed awake just long enough to open a few presents from all his adoring family then slept the rest of the weekend.


McKenna just turned 9.  It was so fun to take her out shopping for the perfect birthday outfit.  Yes, she had a specific thing in mind and we walked the whole mall trying to find it.  She hasn't let growing up in a house full of boys spoil the joys life holds for girls.   McKenna has picked up the best from her brothers.  She is a good student, a budding musician, a devoted friend and an anmial on the soccer field. 

For her birthday party we took her soccer friends to Build-A-Bear Workshop.  They had a great time creating their own cuddly friends with individual personalities. 







While we were at the mall with friends, Dad was taking care of McKenna's birthday dinner at home.


Happy Birthday,  Tanner & McKenna!

Sunday, April 25, 2010

Spring Break 2010


It never fails...spring break in Washington is always full of rain! We have learned how to work around it.  This year we started Spring Break up in Mossyrock at the Heywood Hideaway. Who ever thought that 6 people trapped up in a cabin away from civilization could survive each other for 4 days with nothing to do, but we did and had a great time doing it.

We relaxed by watching movies, reading and taking naps.


We went to the local parks to play and hike.








We ate a lot of good food!


And no family time is complete without some down and dirty games of NERTZ!



When we came back to town it was still raining.  We had Emily come and stay with us for part of the week, did some shopping, some birthday picturing, scatter balling in the church gym and ended the break with General Conferencing and Easter Celebrating.  Good family times to remember!

Friday, March 19, 2010

Sisters

I love my sisters!  This month I was able to go visit my baby sister, Tricia in Peoria, Arizona.  She just had her second baby,  and invited all the sisters to come for the blessing and a little "sister time." 
It was so much fun!


These are my two newest nieces.  I got to spend a lot of time with them over the weekend.  On the left is Rorie Jane and on the right is Annabella Rose.  (I couldn't convince Natalie or Tricia to let me bring one back to be McKenna's sister.)  Between the five of us girls, and Grandma and Grandpa, these two cuties got quite spoiled. 

But don't worry, we spoiled ourselves as well.  With the Arizona sunshine and the need to wear sandals, we had to get pedicures...


in BRIGHT spring colors.
We had fun doing each other's hair, makeup and sharing beauty tricks and tips.


We did a lot of shopping and of course a lot of eating.


It was almost like were were kids again.  We even had some late nights playing
games, talking and laughing.


There wasn't nearly enough time to do everything we wanted to do.  I am so lucky to have grown up in such an amazing family.  I love my brother too and we missed him, but I am sure he wouldn't have enjoyed the pedicures, hair and makeup stuff.  He hated sharing the bathroom with us growing up.  I am glad we have all stayed close and continue to find time to spend together. 
You guys are my BEST FRIENDS! 
Thanks for hosting, Tricia.
Who's having the next baby so we can do this all again?

Monday, February 15, 2010

Our Trip to Disney World

Christmas morning Carson and McKenna recieved a bunch of clues that they had to figure out all led to Disney World.  When they figured it out they recieved airline tickets and 5 day passes to the Disney World parks. 

The first week of February we flew to Orlando, Florida to see Mickey and his friends whileTanner and Austin stayed behind with family friends to attend to their school work.  We missed Tanner and Austin, but we called them every day to let them know how much fun we were having.  (I am sure they appreciated that!  No worries, they had their turn when they were in elementary school too.)

We hit four parks in four days and used the fifth day to go back to our favorite.  It was such a fun week!


At the Magic Kingdom we got poured upon.  Thank goodness Eric had packed everyone ponchos.  (He is such a thorough trip planner. I love it becuase it allows me to sit back, relax and enjoy!)  The rain didn't stop us, though it did stop everyone else.  We didn't have to wait in any lines, and got to go on our favorite rides multiple times.  At the end of the day, I was glad we had picked up some motion sick pills along with our groceries so I could get through the next four days. 


Carson and McKenna are thrill ride maniacs.  Unfortunately, Splash Mountain was closed so we only got to two of the three mountains in this park:  Space and Thunder.  That night we went to bed with high expectations of hitting a third mountain, Everest,  in Disney's Animal Kingdom.



The morning began in Africa on Kilimanjaro's Safari.  There were so many amazing animals to see.  The weird weather must have made them anxious.  They were all on the prowl.  Eric was glad he got to see the wildebeests.  Carson was charged by a white rinoceros and ostriches, and McKenna was particularly impressed with the size of the gray back gorillas on the nature hike following the safari.  The gorillas are always my favorite too!




Leaving Africa we took a short stroll to Asia past the tree of life where we hit the Kali River Rapids (those ponchos came in handy again) and Carson and McKenna's soon-to-be, all-time favorite ride--Expedition Everest, in search of the mysterious Yeti. Of course everyone (even Marsha) waited until I was securely buckeled into the train and on the way up the hill before they told me, "Did you know this goes backwards?"  I didn't find that very funny as you can see from my picture:


We also rode Dinosaur.  This was a little intense for McKenna, so when Carson wanted to do it again she and Eric went to do some pin trading.  It looks like I should have joined them and maybe taken the guy in the front row with me...


At Epcot we toured the land of the dinosaurs with Bill Nye the Science Guy, explored the power of imagination with Figment, and became Kim Possible secret agents in Paris, plus much, much more.


As for thrill rides, this park had them too.  We had a great time on Test Track and a "blast" on Mission Space.  I opted for the less adventurous side of the mission space ride and convinced Carson and Marsha to join me.  I had too many friends warn me about this ride and how it had ruined the rest of their day.  McKenna and Eric went for the full experience.  We all loved it!  I did go back later in the day and try the full force of rocketing away from earth and slingshotting around the moon, WOW!  I am definately putting motion sickness pills on my gratitude list this year.  The cinematography of this ride was beautiful.  It is good I had that to focus on or I would have had to use the barf bags hanging on the seat belt halter.  Where else could you get an experience like that without going through the real space program - leave it to Disney!






I was looking forward to Disney's Hollywood Studios.  I love watching the live productions.  The energy and work the cast members have to put in amazes me.  I also love Rockin' Roller Coaster.  I had to really gear up for this park knowing Carson and McKenna would not let me get away with only one ride on the Rockin' Roller Coaster, or the Tower of Terror, or Star Tours. 




 

We took a little break from the rides to enjoy the Indain Jones Stunt Show.  Eric was chosen out of the audience to be an extra.  He was quite hillarious, especially when they asked him to act out a death scene.


By the end of the night we were all holding our stomachs.
 


That didn't stop us from going back to Animal Kingdom for our favorite park day and going on Everest again, and again and again.  We also were able to hit some of the attractions we couldn't get to like Rafiki's conservation station the Asian nature trail and observatory and the oasis.

Our evenings were just as packed as our days.  We had dinner with the Princesses, took in a dinner show at the Hoop Dee Doo Revue, and of course there were fireworks to see.  It was trip we will always remember.


Wednesday, February 10, 2010

January, Gone Already!


January has come and gone, but not without us taking time to celebrate one awesome dude! Awesome Austin is 14. I thought January went fast, where have the last 13 years gone? Austin has grown into such a handsome young man. I am proud of his hard work in every area of his life. He is an outstanding priesthood holder, student, pianist, budding guitarist, brother, son and friend. I particularly enjoy his sense of humor and compassion.  Happy Birthday, Austin!